Friday, October 11, 2013

Relationship Lessons From Fifty Shades of Grey



We may think of whips and chains in the red room of pain when we think of Anastasia and Christian, but it looks like the most talked about couple of the moment might have got something right. Anastasia and Christian seem to not only have a deep connection, but they also have one heck of an exciting relationship. Yes, they are fictional, but their positive attributes are something we could all learn from. The theme of food is strewn throughout the Fifty Shades of Grey books, but what stands out is our favorite couple take the time to sit down to eat together and it doesn't matter whether it's breakfast, lunch or dinner. Christian Grey does have an obsession with food, and his controlling tendencies extend beyond the bedroom to the dinner table, always making sure Anastasia Steele eats properly. But sitting together at meal times is a trick suggested by councilors to get couples to connect again. One thing Anastasia and Christian manage to do to keep their relationship fun is the constant exchange of playful banter. Whether they do this in person or by email, communication is a key point to keeping a relationship alive. So even a few moments to say hello, how are you can retain their fun parts, helping to keep the relationship running with a flame.

Christian and Anastasia know who to put first - each other! While there are some parts of their relationship to do with control and domination, outside the cable ties and spanking, Christian does make Ana feel secure as his girlfriend. Ana also reciprocates, turning it into a relationship that's both give and take, while making sure your partner is at the top, ensuring a lasting and strong relationship. Having fun together is the key to keeping the passions burning, and Christian Grey certainly knows how to show Ana a goodtime. He introduces her to his favorite pastimes from gliding to sailing. Trying new things produce adrenaline and endorphins that can help to heighten the good feelings between couples - the rush will help to strengthen the connection that's already forming there. An insular relationship is not a healthy one, and Anastasia and Christian make sure they spend enough time with family and friends - especially those who are positive about their relationship. Having encouraging friends and family can help to establish a supportive network outside the couple. Fifty shades of Grey have put the spark back in many relationships in 2012 and are sure to continue this in 2013. Fifty Shades dedicated to the Fifty shades of grey trilogy for fans to read the latest news on the movie casting on Anastasia Steele.


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